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Mindfulness Tools To Bring More Daily Happiness

Mindfulness Tools - To Bring More Daily Happiness

MIndfulness Training – Which Brings More Daily Happiness

Here’s some mindfulness tools – which brings more daily happiness! Read on…

My son Ari and I were heading to daycare the other day – the same exact route we always go.

Yep. Every day, we stroller down the same street to get there.

I like to talk with him, as we stroller – always pointing out things to notice.

“Look at that poodle in a bright pink coat!”

“The air feels a little wet – like it could rain.”

“That woman we just passed smells like flowery perfume.”

So the other day it occurred to me to point out something entirely new to Ari. I pointed out how even though we always go the same exact path to daycare daily, things are always different – in some way – on this supposedly exact same path.

The people walking down the street alongside us are different people. The cars we’re passing are different cars and, thereby, lots of different colors. The weather in the air has a different temperature – and even a different smell sometimes. Our clothes are different. The conversation we’re having is different.

The possibilities in each day ahead of us are always different.

I told Ari we should both be aware of what is different each day – because each day holds something new to see, something new to hear, something new to learn, something new to experience.

And it’s true.

Mindfulness Tools - To Bring More Daily Happiness
All of this kinda reminds me of a Paulo Cuelho quote:

“You can become blind by seeing each day as a similar one. Each day is a different one, each day brings a miracle of its own. It’s just a matter of paying attention to this miracle.”

It also kinda reminds me of what Nobel Prize winning scientist Daniel Kahneman shares. Kahenman says that we all experience about 20,000 individual “moments” in a day. According to Kahneman, each of these individual “moments” lasts but a mere few seconds.

When you’re fully, mindfully present ( instead of being caught up with regrets about the past or worries about the future) you’re able to appreciate life’s beautiful “now time” moments – and thereby our life doesn’t become one big “blur time.”

I’m a believer that part of the reason we love music and art is because they are opportunities to live in “now time” – not “blur time.” When we’re listing to a song we love – or gazing steadfast at a painting which entrances us – we’re fully present in a “still frame” moment – mindfully in “now time.” The same thing goes for why we doubly enjoy a delicious meal. Sure, yummy food is fun to eat. But part of why it’s fun is because we’re stopped in time when we savor an awesome taste sensation!

Mindfulness Tools - To Bring More Daily Happiness
I also believe that “now time” is how you create a MEMORY! When you’re living mindfully in the moment you’re “freeze framing” a moment in time – and this is what creates a MEMORY! It then makes sense that the less memories you have during specific times in your life, the more likely it’s because you were speed-forwarding through each moment – not living in “now time.” Likewise, the more memories you have from specific times in your life, it’s because these were precious times – when you were deeply aware of the miracles of your life – and living fully and consciously.

IN SUMMARY:

If you want to love your life more – you can begin by living and loving more of it – by living and loving more of those teeny-tiny, awesome moments in your day! Decide you will now choose to keep your eyes open for what makes a “new today” different unto itself from any other day. You will not only experience more happiness on a daily basis, but a month from now you will be able to look back and have more happy memories to appreciate.

YOUR ASSIGNMENT: 

Share with your family this idea of committing to noticing the details in a day – and to live more in “now time.” Decide each of you will now choose to keep your eyes open for what makes a “new today” different unto itself from any other day – and share it with each other.  There is that famous game of “I Spy”- which one usually plays with toddlers. Well, guess what? “I Spy” is a fun game to play with all family members. Howard, Ari and I all love to point out to one another all the interesting people and things we see as we walk down the street together. It is a fun game to point out the details we notice.  I promise that if you do this regularly within your family, you will train your brain to live more in the now – focused on the beauty around you – instead of obsessing about the past or fearing the future! As a result, you will wind up experiencing more daily happiness. 

I’d love to hear your insights on the comment section below! What’s something which comes to your mind and heart when you read this story?  Share below!


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Karen Salmansohn (Founder)

Hi I’m Karen Salmansohn, founder of NotSalmon. My mission is to offer you easy-to-understand insights and tools to empower you to bloom into your happiest, highest potential self. I use playful analogies, feisty humor, and stylish graphics to distill big ideas – going as far back as ancient wisdom from Aristotle, Buddhism and Darwin to the latest research studies from Cognitive Therapy, Neuro Linquistic Programming, Neuroscience, Positive Psychology, Quantum Physics, Nutritional Studies – and then some.

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