LEARN HOW TO CREATE A RELATIONSHIP THAT
SURVIVES THE TEST OF TIME & TEST OF CONFLICT.
Get research backed practical tips to boost the caring, attraction, happiness & friendship in your relationship.
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Resolve issues with your partner - without escalating tensions. Feel more connected & understood.
Relationships can deteriorate for a range of reasons. Sometimes it's due to a big challenging event - like an affair, miscarriage - or other crisis.
And sometimes relationships simply undergo a slow unraveling.
Eventually things just don't feel as good anymore. Instead of warm conversations and hot times in bed, you start to experience cooler exchanges - with occasional cold spells.
When this happens, you try to do whatever you can to bring back the connection and passion. But, alas, often nothing seems to work.
If you can relate, I have some positive news! You don't need to break up. You just need to learn new ways to communicate, listen, repair, and negotiate conflicts.
I know - because I've been there myself with my partner. Thankfully I discovered a range of research-based tools which revived our relationship.
In fact, I was lucky enough to learn a lot of these tools directly from famed relationship experts like John Gottman, Michael Gurian & others - in private interviews.
As you might know, I'm a bestselling author and researcher on happiness - with 2 million books sold globally.
Well, because of my background, I gained personal access to some of the top relationship experts in the world. These experts taught me truly effective life-changing relationship strategies. Plus they led me to read a range of fascinating relationship studies - about how to build a more Conscious Relationship - all of which also helped my situation.
When I started to apply ALL these techniques, my relationship began to bloom!
So I condensed all of these results-proven tools into this comprehensive video course!
My mission: Help as many people as I can to mend - not end - their relationships.
This course is helpful even if you're NOT presently in a relationship.
You'll learn what it takes to connect deeper with a partner. Empower each other as individuals. Become a powerful team!
I believe that most relationships fail because couples don't know how to “undo habit patterns" which led to their core issues with communication, trust, attraction and connection.
If you want to re-energize a better relationship you need to un-learn what you're doing & re-learn new improved habits.
After all, if you keep doing what you're always doing, you'll keep getting what you're always getting.
In this course I explain in simple terms what you need to STOP doing - and START doing instead. Plus I share my insights and tools with playful analogies and humor.
Now you might be wondering:
- "What if my partner doesn't want to take the course with me - or follow your advice? Will these tools still help?"
- "Do these relationship tools help with very big problems - like affairs or some other crisis?"
The answer is "Yes" and "Yes"!
You can learn these tools by yourself (without your partner) - and still experience strong improvements in your relationship.
Plus, these tools have helped my various clients to heal a wide range of highly challenging relationship issues - from affairs to other crises.
The big caveat: If your partner has a toxic personality disorder - these tools might not work.
With this in mind: This course offers a specific section to help you to determine if your partner's emotional issues run so deep, that there's no hope of reform.
Best of all: The entire library of materials is 1/1000th the cost of therapy. Start your first lesson instantly. Enjoy the material from the privacy of your home.
Remember: Every minute you wait to mend your issues, you risk your relationship growing more distant.
Start now! Learn how to neutralize conflicts and re-connect in healthier, more loving ways. Gain a deeper understanding of your partner's inner self - so you can boost your intimacy.
Go from stuck and distant – to open and deeply connected.
Get FULL LIFETIME ACCESS to the entire library of tools, so you have everything you need at your fingertips 24/7.
This course is helpful for people age 18 to 118!
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This course is helpful if you're single, dating or in a relationship!
This course is LGBTQ friendly! These practices are not gender specific.
You'll learn how to nourish mutual understanding, build deeper respect, improve communication and create more cooperation.
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These tools saved what I thought was an unsave-able marriage!
It was one of the toughest times of my life. I was especially worried because my wife was not interested in saving our relationship and I didn't think I could do it myself without her. But Karen shared with me some techniques which helped me to communicate better - and not do my "knee jerk" reactions - which were actually "me being a jerk reactions." (Those were Karen's tough love words!) The changes I ultimately made created a ripple effect into my relationship - and these tools eventually saved what I thought was an unsave-able marriage. Karen's ability to explain complicated ideas in relatable and simple ways is a gift. I'm forever grateful.
– Richard, New York
Albert Einstein famously said: “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again – and expecting different results.”
Well, if you keep doing the same habits with your partner - over and over - you’ll be stuck with the same problems.
Nothing changes if nothing changes!
If you want to improve your relationship, you need to learn these new, better ways to talk, listen, repair, interpret, negotiate and connect!
What you can expect...
Experience a love that thrives - NOT a love that dies!
Module I: The Basics For Creating Lasting Love
Lesson: What The Downfall of Civilizations Can Teach You About Love (4:43)
Lesson: Main Differences Between Divorced vs Married Couples (John Gottman) (4:11)
Lesson: 5 Habits Which Will Keep Love Alive (Michael Gurian) (4:15)
Lesson: The Marriage Box Metaphor (4:26)
Lesson: Top 10 Habits for Lasting Love
Module II: Conflict Management
Lesson: How Not To Fight In Public or In Front of Kids (5:26)
Lesson: How to Fight Fair - So You Get Closer Not Further Apart (11:29)
Lesson: Understanding Your Childhood "Conflict Programming" COMING IN JUNE
Lesson: Tips For Nipping Problems In The Bud -COMING IN JULY
Lesson: Do A "Byron Katie" Turnaround - COMING IN AUGUST
Module III: Feel More Connection, Respect and Support
Lesson: Morning/Evening Habit of Emotionally Connected Couples (1:00)
Lesson: How to Boost Emotional Intimacy (4:55)
Lesson: Aphrodisiactions to Boost Physical Intimacy
Lesson: The Basics of Deep Listening (includes handy PDF)
Scripts to use: What to Say to Break A Silence + Start A Courageous Conversation
Scripts to use: Questions to Ask to Help You To Be a Deeper Listener With Your Partner
Module IV: Love Repair And Maintenance
Lesson: How & When To Compromise (6:22)
Lesson: Positive Evidence Collecting vs Negative Evidence Collecting- COMING IN SEPTEMBER
Lesson: How To Keep Conflicts From Repeating - COMING IN OCTOBER
Scripts to use: How To Gently Negotiate What You Want - So Your Partner Hears You & Understands You
Scripts to use: Things To Say To Express Greater Empathy & Understanding When Your Partner Speaks
Scripts to use: Things to Say to Help You More Deeply Understand Your Partner’s Feelings & Needs So You Boost Emotional Connection
Module V: Should You Stay Or Go?
Lesson: Warning signs your partner is not capable of change
Lesson: Signs your partner is a narcissist or has a toxic personality disorder
Module VI: 7 Steps To Create More Happiness
Bonus: 7 Step Audio Program by Annie Kaszina - top International Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach (value $97)
Lessons on how to break through your “happiness glass ceiling,” to free yourself from your pesky inner critic, overcome any lingering dread of being labelled selfish - and set yourself up for harmonious, lasting relationships.
Only $49.00 for lifetime access!
This course was a relationship game changer.
My marriage was in major crisis when I discovered Karen's relationship techniques. Her course was a relationship game changer. I loved how Karen shared her ideas in a simple, straightforward way. Her training was helpful and healing. My husband and I now feel more connected. We talk more openly with each other and fight a lot less. I wish I had known these tools years ago!
– Susan L, New Jersey
Just in case you were wondering – purchasing the Secrets of Happy Couples Video Course is risk-free. Give it a try. If you find that it’s not a good fit, you can request a refund within 30 days. But, if you do find that it’s a good fit...well, your life will improve...forever! 🙂
Improve your life in under 10 minutes a day.
Each video is only 2 to 10-ish minutes short to watch – because research reports people learn better in short video bursts.
Plus, my students love how playful and simple my video tools are to learn and apply!
There are no live calls. You can fit the course easily into your schedule. Add it onto your morning routine. It's a positive way to start your day!
You get 6 modules jampacked with a range of Videos, Relationship Boosting Checklists, Journal Exercises, Scripts (for exactly what to say to improve your connection) - and then some!
Plus, you get unlimited access to everything - because you keep the course for life!
Instant FREE Bonus materials
$97 bonus value when you purchase Secrets of Happy Couples
FREE! Create More Happiness Starting Now, by Annie Kaszina, a leading International Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach and author. In this 7 Step Audio Program, Annie distills 20 years of research and experience on happiness. If you've forgotten what happiness feels like, if you feel broken due to your relationship struggles, if you worry you've lost your sparkle, this program will teach you how to break through your “happiness glass ceiling,” free yourself from your pesky inner critic, overcome any lingering dread of being labelled selfish, set yourself up for harmonious, lasting relationships and more.
Karen Salmansohn’s insights and tools are loved by many!
Here’s why Karen's Coaching Clients love her so much...
I initially came to Karen as I was interested in exploring my relationship with food. In many ways I am one of the lucky ones, I can eat pretty much what i like without too many dire consequences - but that was allowing me to just cover up the fact that I was still falling into the same unhealthy traps and I wanted to find out why. While working with Karen, I was shocked by how much came to surface as to why I had developed food issues. I had no idea that my whole life had been a series of what Karen called "covert operations" - not just with food - but with relationships with friends, family, lovers - and most crucially with myself. I felt like I had a wee friendly American lady in my head, doing a full spring clean - taking down all the boxes, dusting them off - and more importantly chucking them out - all the while humming her favorites tunes and often laughing out loud. This is defragging of the soul! It was completely differently than working in therapy with anyone else I know. It was both lighter and yet deeper. Karen asked such innocent sounding questions - and yet they seemed to burn all the way through the heavily locked cells of my “thats just the way its always been" beliefs system. We laughed - and I also cried…a lot! It was fun -and yet tough at the same time. In my experience, some coaches can make "the problem” feel bigger at the start - and that can feel overwhelming. I felt I was in completely safe hands at all times. I love Karen's warm approach of “we go in together - and we come out together." No sweat. We're just cleaning stuff up! Karen was gentle and yet firm! Karen showed me that nothing has to be stuck - or hard - unless we choose for it to be that way. Karen showed me different ways to view the matrix/cobwebs that we get caught up in - usually of other people’s weaving or creation. I've already recommended Karen's Coaching to at least 3 people. It feels so good to have someone like Karen on “my team" - someone who I can turn to and ask for help without judgement - with total love and support! Someone who is dedicated to me simply being my best self. Who wouldn’t want someone like that in their lives!?
After witnessing a decade of my repeated cycle of toxic, destructive love relationships my sister purchased me a copy of Karen’s amazing book, Prince Harming Syndrome, after seeing it on Oprah. I read the book in 24 hours and it changed my life forever and I wanted more. I contacted Karen to see if she would take me on as a life coach. She said yes and this yes was the beginning of a life changing transformation. Karen is truly gifted. Soon after working with Karen I was able to release my deep-set past wounds, recognize and identify my toxic patterns in relationships, while gaining clarity in what I was looking for which helped me to create a path for a healthy relationship. I have allowed her words to marinate and as a result I am happier now because I have let go of my fear that was holding me back and my shrine to painful past wounds has been released. I am so thankful and grateful that Karen came into my life and I would recommend her to anyone wishing to break the cycle and transform their love relationships forever.
Karen Salmansohn's coaching methodology proved to be insightful, helpful and fun. Unlike traditional therapy, Karen's laser focus and sense of humor made it possible for me to get quickly and effectively past childhood abandonment trauma, which haunted all my adult relationships. Each week, she assigned homework that helped me gain clarity plus allowed me to fully forgive myself, my former partners, and my dysfunctional parents. My favorite coaching assignment was called, "The Pendulum." Karen had me examine past relationships to see "where" each partner fell. To my dismay, all of my previous relationships fell in either the "too much" or "too little" categories, zigzagging from one extreme to the other. With Karen's encouragement and resources, I know that when I'm ready to be in a relationship again, I'll not only be a better partner, I'll be ready to accept someone who falls in the sweet spot of my desires. Working with Karen was a highlight of my year, and I'm so grateful for her loving, generous warmth.
I came to Karen because I felt I give too much and get taken advantage of - both in personal and professional relationships. I desired more balance in the "give and take" and also wanted to be more assertive. I found out that I had 2 issues. Firstly, with what Karen calls “pendulum swings” (I wouldn't speak up at all - or I'd speak up too strongly). And "pain softeners" (I’d tell myself “this is OK - it's not so bad” - when my life could be much better. ) I shared a childhood memory with Karen and she helped to me realize how early on I learned not to trust my own feelings - because they had been invalidated by one of my parents. Karen seemed to get into the heart of things very quickly - just cut to the chase. I gained a TON of insight about my pattern of anger, numbness, regret, rumination, repeat. I would recommend Karen – a thousand times YES!
Why Experts Love Karen's Work!
We are in charge of our own destiny
Salmansohn reminds us that in life, control is just an illusion and that we are in charge of our own destiny. This funny, profound and heartfelt collection demonstrates that when faced with adversity, we have the power to overcome through gratitude, humor and courage.
Sass and shine
Salmansohn's got sass and shine! Her work sparks people to wake up, and at the same time, gives the comfort of perennial wisdom – such a divine combo. Sass and shine, in the best package!
Expert on psychological research studies
This book is full of psychological research studies to help you not only recover from the tough times, but also bounce back to an even higher level than your previous bests.
A library's worth of proven insights
Just picking up this engaging book boosted my spirits. Not only does The Bounce Back Book pack a library's worth of proven insights into one slim volume, it presents that information in a hilarious way, with eye-catching graphics, to drive its wisdom home. For anyone mired in the dumps – or who just wants to live more joyfully! – this is essential reading.
Learn positive relationship habits. Improve how you & your partner talk, listen, interpret, negotiate, connect!
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Stop having conflicts over the same issues.
Start feeling more understood & valued.
Simple To Follow.
Karen takes you through everything - step-by-step! You'll gain the healing, courage, insights & support you need to move onto a happy, lasting relationship. She explains everything in easy to understand terms & with humor.
Private Access. Just You & Karen.
You can access these videos (& PDFs) on computers, tablets, iPads, & smartphones. Your viewing is private. Just you watching videos - at your pace - and at your place!
Award Winning Design
Karen is an award winning designer. All of these videos are produced with stylishly designed graphics. Plus each video is a convenient & fun 2 to 10-ish minutes short to watch.
30 Day Refund Guarantee
All NotSalmon Courses are self-paced. Begin today - pick up easily wherever you stop. Enjoy lifetime access. Take as long as you like to enjoy a course! Plus Karen offers a 30 day refund policy.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I don't have time to watch the course right away?
No worries! You have lifetime access! Watch it at your pace - and at your place - on any and all of your screen devices! Binge watch or slooooow watch. It's your choice!
What's your philosophy on guarantees?
I'm in the happiness business. I want you to be happy! So if you're not happy, and let me know within 30 days, I'll refund your money! That said, usually people love the course so much, they wind up buying my other courses as well!
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