Want a technique to get unstuck and move forward? Explore Life Review Therapy – learn what it is, its benefits, and techniques to do.
Ever feel like you’re carrying around a backpack filled with yesterday’s stories, memories, and perhaps a few regrets?
You know, those heavy boulders of “what-ifs” and “if-onlys” that seem to grow heavier with each passing year.
You’re not alone. We all have our backpacks, some heavier than others, brimming with sorrows, missed opportunities, and roads not taken.
But what if I told you there’s a way to lighten this load? A way to sift through the clutter, keep what’s precious, and let go of the burdens that have been weighing you down?
Get ready to learn about an empowering technique – called Life Review Therapy. I’m writing about this topic because I’m a leading Behavioral Change expert
I share about this more in my book Your To Die For Life.
Usually I advise my clients to keep their focus on what they can do in the present – to create the future they want.
But in this article I’m going to talk about the power of looking back.
What is Life Review Therapy?
First things first: Life Review Therapy is not about wallowing in the past, but about understanding it, learning from it, and moving forward with a lighter heart.
Life Review Therapy is like sitting down with an old photo album of your life. It’s a process of looking back at your life experiences, making sense of them, and finding peace.
Traditionally, this is done in one-on-one sessions, with someone who guides you through your past, helping to unearth and understand deep-seated emotions and memories.
But in this article I’m offering you a way to explore this journey by yourself. Think of the following as the DIY version of Life Review Therapy – a self-guided expedition through the landscapes of your past, armed with introspection and honesty as your tools.
(If you want more support after this article, you can explore doing Life Review Therapy with me privately – here.)
Benefits of Life Review Therapy
This DIY Life Review Therapy is for anyone who’s ever felt stuck because of their past.
It’s for you if:
- You have regrets – or unresolved issues weighing you down.
- You’re at a crossroads – looking back before moving forward.
- You’re in the later stages of life – seeking to make peace with your journey.
You might wonder, “Why dig up the past?” Here’s why:
- Closure: It helps you find closure on unresolved issues.
- Perspective: It gives you a fresh perspective on your life’s journey.
- Self-Understanding: It enhances self-understanding and acceptance.
- Healing: It can be a healing process, allowing you to forgive yourself and others.
How to do DIY Life Review Therapy
In a way, doing Life Review Therapy is like being both the author and the reader of your own life story.
Here are 10 questions to help you to uncover some needed insights and wisdom.
1. What moments am I most proud of?
Reflect on your achievements and milestones. What made these moments so significant?
2. Are there apologies I need to make or accept?
Consider moments of conflict or misunderstanding. Is there healing that needs to happen?
3. What were my happiest times? Why?
Identify the periods of pure joy and contentment. What factors contributed to these feelings?
4. What would I have done differently, knowing what I know now?
With the wisdom of hindsight, explore decisions you might reconsider.
5. Who have been the most influential people in my life?
Think about those who have shaped your journey, for better or worse.
6. What were my dreams and aspirations at different stages?
Reflect on your evolving ambitions and how they’ve shaped your path.
7. How have my failures and challenges shaped me – what lessons did they bring?
Consider your setbacks as lessons rather than defeats.
8. What are the recurring themes or patterns in my life?
Look for patterns in your choices and experiences. What do they reveal?
9. What lessons have I learned about love, work, and relationships?
Distill the wisdom you’ve gained in these key areas of life.
10. How do I want to be remembered?
Think about the legacy you wish to leave behind.

Navigating the Emotional Journey of a Self-Guided Life Review
A Life Review can stir up a mix of emotions. So keep the following in mind (and in heart).
- Embrace All Emotions: Let yourself feel everything that comes up. Joy, regret, sadness, gratitude – they’re all valid.
- Pace Yourself: Don’t rush. Take breaks if things get overwhelming.
- Reflect and Write: Use journaling to process your thoughts and emotions.
Conclusion: Life Review Therapy Techniques
A DIY Life Review isn’t just about reminiscing. It’s a powerful tool for growth and healing. It’s about taking stock of where you’ve been, to better understand where you’re going. By examining your past, you can make peace with it and walk into your future with a lighter step.
As a Behavioral Change expert, I’ve seen the transformative power of reflecting on one’s life. It’s a journey worth taking, a process that can bring clarity, peace, and a renewed sense of purpose. If you’d like to explore private one on one sessions with me doing Life Review Therapy, set up a free call here. Your future self will thank you for this gift of understanding and closure.
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