Have you ever vented to someone about how stressed out you are – and they responded with something like: “You should really try meditation…”?
So you thought to yourself: “Geez! I already have a million and one things to do – which is why I’m stressed! I don’t have time to add in meditation – which is basically sitting there and doing nothing!”
You gotta take time to meditate exactly because you have a million and one things to do!
By simply taking a few minutes out of your day to sit quietly, you can release the tension you’ve been holding onto.
I’m not only saying this because I studied to be a meditation teacher – and passionately teach it to my clients. I’m saying this because psychologists, doctors, neuroscientists, and university researchers all agree: meditation is an effective method for relaxation.
I love meditation so much, I wrote a book called Instant Calm – which shares a range of simple 2 minute sensory meditations – and has been praised by world renowned experts on meditation. (Learn more here!)
Ok. So…are you now open-ish to meditation – but not sure where to start?
So when you’re sitting down for your first meditation, make sure it’s short and simple. It can even be as short as two minutes.
In fact, two minutes of mindful meditating is better than getting frustrated trying to do a 30-minute meditation and giving up!
In my book Instant Calm I offer a range of simple 2 minute meditations you can try – each based on tapping into your 5 senses: sight, smell, taste, touch, hearing.
I purposefully made the meditations which I share all feel like fun – so you’re more likely to do them.
I’m sneaking you 2 of these short meditations from my book Instant Calm – which I think you’ll find enjoyable.
The better you are at mastering your thoughts and focusing only on that dot inside of the rainbow (in a one-pointed meditative way) then the better this bonus optical illusion reward will be for you.
If you regularly practice this fun “MeDOTation,” you will be learning how to master your misbehaving thoughts – and be able to move on to more advanced meditation techniques.
Inside my book Instant Calm I have many more simple 2 minute sensory meditations!
Here’s a peek at another short meditation – excerpted from my book Instant Calm.
Many studies report that the smell of Vanilla can boost happiness and decrease stress—including one study by The Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center in New York.
The Center actually tested the effects of five different fragrances on 85 patients undergoing an MRI scan. Of all the 5 different scents tested, Vanilla was rated the number one most relaxing. In fact, patients exposed to the Vanilla smell reported 63% less anxiety and claustrophobia than those not exposed.
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But it’s not enough to find meditations you want to do.
You also must make sure you actually do them – which requires you scheduling meditation into your day!
If you’re serious about meditating every day, it’s important to make it a habit. Otherwise, you might do it for a couple of days – then just forget about it altogether.
The best way to make something a habit is to schedule it into your day – and pair this new habit with a habit you already do every day.
If you eat breakfast every morning, you can set aside five minutes before breakfast to meditate.The result? Eating breakfast is a reminder to meditate every day.
If you prefer to meditate at night, you can pick an evening ritual to pair it up with – like brushing your teeth.
One of the main goals of meditation is to clear your mind. But this is impossible to accomplish if you’re constantly being interrupted by screaming kids or or a ringing phone.
That’s why it’s important to find a time and place where there will be no interruptions. Even the idea that there could be an interruption is enough to ruin a meditation.
If you have constant distractions at home, you could try doing a meditation in your car before walking into work. Any place where you can be alone and feel comfortable is a great place to meditate.
Every morning when you wake up, you brush your teeth and get dressed. You think of these time consuming habits as necessities.
Well, you need to start thinking about meditating as a necessity too.
In the same way you feel it’s important to take a few minutes for dental hygiene and brush your teeth – you need to start feeling that way about your mental health – and prioritize meditating.
Once you start to think of meditation as a necessity for your mental health, it will be a lot easier to make time for it in your daily routine.
Have you tried meditation in the past, but quickly gave up because you just couldn’t focus or clear your mind? You’re not alone! This is the case for just about every beginner.We’ve spent our whole lives living a fast-paced life. Clearing the mind goes completely against what we’ve trained ourselves to do. That’s why it can feel impossible to clear your mind during meditation at first.
In fact, it may take a few weeks to really notice an improvement in focus. But the improvement will come, and it’ll be life-changing.
Every expert started out as a beginner. Practice is how we learn.
TEDx speaker, Josh Kaufman, says that it usually takes at least 20 hours of practice when you start a new activity to become good at this new skillset. So be patient with yourself, and forgive yourself for slipping up. It will be well worth it soon enough.
Meditation for beginners can seem daunting, but if you use these basic tips you’ll have no problem integrating this practice into your everyday life. Remember, no matter how busy you are, you can always find time for a short, 2-minute meditation.
Hi I’m Karen Salmansohn, founder of NotSalmon. My mission is to offer you easy-to-understand insights and tools to empower you to bloom into your happiest, highest potential self. I use playful analogies, feisty humor, and stylish graphics to distill big ideas – going as far back as ancient wisdom from Aristotle, Buddhism and Darwin to the latest research studies from Cognitive Therapy, Neuro Linquistic Programming, Neuroscience, Positive Psychology, Quantum Physics, Nutritional Studies – and then some.
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