Life doesn’t always go as planned. But if you’re able to tap into the power of gratitude and appreciation, you can still find joy in each day.
Note: This is a guest essay by Becky Vollmer
Snow day in St. Louis yesterday = a practice in gratitude.
I will confess that gratitude was not my first instinct upon hearing the news.
No, Step One was resisting the urge to scream into my pillow.
Step Two was to post something kinda snotty in a FB group for fellow moms.
“A good mom would RELISH the chance to stay inside with her wound up kiddos all day, right? A good mom would have all the ingredients for homemade chocolate chip cookies on hand… and then happily entertain a flour fight as we all got dough up to our elbows making memories, right?”
And then the mamas started weighing in.
The working moms who don’t get nearly enough time with their kiddos and were thrilled for a day together.
The stay-at-home moms happy for their hubby to have a day home with the family.
The teachers (saints) who so desperately need (and deserve) a break that means spending a day with one child (their own) instead of 20.
The moms whose older kids have flown the coop and would do just about anything to have one of those old days back.
“Sorry to poo on your party… but sounds like a great day for gratitude. I never had kids and would have loved to have had snow days. They might be really excited to be home with you cause you’re so much fun. I have another friend named Becky. We call her Fun Becks. Today, be Fun Becks. Sounds like a great day for acceptance and stretching. Or not. Love you.”
I looked into the bright side. And then I thought about how my girls were gonna freak out with joy when they saw all this beautiful snow (which they did).
The writer Melody Beattie, author of “Codependent No More,” talks about gratitude:
I see it now.
“Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. Gratitude turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. Plus gratitude can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. This power of gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow.”
A blessing in disguise.
The power of gratitude.
Because I put on what the writer Glennon Doyle Melton of Momastery geniusly calls “perspectacles.”
(Read this, people. It’ll change your life.)
Thank you friends.
And thank you snow day,
Plus thank you process.
Oh – and thank you, bright side.
Note: This is a guest essay by Becky Vollmer.
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