Here’s a career boosting tip to build up your courage to do all the things you really wanna do – so you can live the life you wanna live.
Do you keep threatening to pursue your truest passions – but keep coming up with excuses not to move forward?
I relate. Truly!
Over a decade ago I was a Sr. Vice President Creative Director in advertising, who was always threatening to quit my high-paying, high-stressing, low-free-time job to pursue my passion for writing.
But I was like the girl who cried wolf. Always saying I was gonna quit. But not doing it.
Not just about the money angle.
I was afraid to let go of a lovely fantasy about a parallel universe in which I existed as “Happy-Go-Lucky Author Girl.”
I was afraid to potentially risk giving up this fantasy – in case my fantasy didn’t come true.
“True fearlessness is not the reduction of fear;
but going BEYOND fear…
by fear-less we don’t mean ‘less fear’ …but ‘beyond fear.'”
I knew I needed to get to this beyond-fear place.
I thought about how it’s easier to walk a plank that’s on solid ground, instead of a plank that’s plunked above an alligator-infested lagoon.
Because the fear of those yapping hungry alligators makes you less focused on what you desire.
In the land of your career your supporting plank is composed of two strong fibers:
When I finally did quit my ad career, it was because I finally stopped staring at my metaphorical alligators – which consisted of these yapping thoughts…
“I’ll never be a published book author!
Heck, I’ve never even written one itty bitty magazine piece!
Geez, what will I do for income if I fail?
After all, I have a child to support… MYSELF!”
Instead I focused on my supporting plank, which consisted of…
confidence (in my writing-skills, discipline, persistence, resilience, optimism, meeting people, learning quickly, following-through)
passion (my excitement to be a writer in a BIGtime way!)
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