If you’re a young guy looking for good conversation starters with women, then you know that pick-up lines are somewhat passé.
And most younger women these days have heard it all.
Some even have a few laughs with their friends about it later.
So where does that leave you as a young guy looking to up your dating game and meet more women?
It’s quite simple. You can let your clothes and accessories do the talking.
As you might know, I’m a bestselling relationship author – known for my book Prince Harming Syndrome (which also applies to Princess Harmings.)
Plus, I share a range of healing insights and helpful tools to find happier love in my video course Broken Heart Recovery.
I recognize that meeting people and dating can feel stressful. That’s why I’ve put together this helpful guide of fun ways young guys can meet women using their clothes as a conversation starter.
So Messi fans – wear that FCB football jersey, and wait for the Ronaldo fan girls to come charging at you.
Then enjoy a friendly heated exchange on the eternal question, “Who is better, Messi or Ronaldo?”
Don’t stop with football and sport – nothing connects two people more than music.
Bring on the Kurt Cobain tees and the rock chicks will be coming up to you in no time.
Bob Marley and Jimi Hendrix will attract the “Peace and Love” crowd.
This one’s quite easy. No worries if you don’t find the t-shirt of your choice online or at a store. An easy fix is to paint the slogan yourself on a plain t-shirt using fabric color paint.
Here is an example of fun line that might inspire a smile from a girl.
I’ve lost count of the times women have gushed over seriously average guys – all because they weren’t afraid to turn up in pink! Women aren’t as judgmental and fickle as you’d believe and they appreciate a man who pulls off a pink ensemble.
What they see is a fashion-forward male with a devil-may-care attitude.
Get into shape and choose a slim-fit button-up pink shirt that shows off the contours of your build. Remember, pink is a versatile color that goes with most shades – dark monochromes, dark blues, browns, and khakis.
I’ve known some young guys who have met girls with astonishing ease because they have embraced yoga, meditation and spirituality. Women are naturally wired to seek out partners with similar world views and interests. This is just one of the many things that women are attracted to.
Remember to dress according to the place you’re at. For example, backpacker areas and traveler hostels are a fantastic place to don t-shirts with Buddha, Ganesha, and Shiva prints, Mandala designs, Om symbols, and even Yin and Yang. You’ll soon have the traveler crowd striking a conversation with you.
Men who sport high-quality watches are hard to come by these days – blame the smartphone for this state of affairs! Believe me, it’s classier to glance at your wrist than to fidget in those pockets for your phone each time you need the time.
Invest in a handsome watch that can be worn to both formal and casual occasions. The Swatch transparent skeleton watches have been eternal conversation starters but a first-copy Rolex will do the trick too. No one’s judging. The goal is to get her to notice something in you, and what better than a watch.
Science has proven time and again that women, in general, are attracted to hirsute men particularly those with beards.
Beards are associated with masculinity, courage, and most importantly, non-conformity so why not head down to the local barber for some tips on what style suits you best – goatee, 3-day beard, or a full one?
The list above is in no way comprehensive and honestly the sky’s the limit with what you can wear to get conversation started – unusual tattoos, animal bone jewelry, bead necklaces, even unique mobile phone covers.
Check out the healing insights and helpful tools to find happier love in my video course Broken Heart Recovery.