My 3 word mantra to snap out of giving up - Cindy Cummings Johnson

My 3 word mantra to snap out of giving up

Note: This is a guest blog by the inspiring Cindy Cummings Johnson

The anxiety in me has been high. It feels like everything’s been caving in.

But I keep telling myself not to give up.

I remind myself that it always gets extremely hard right before a major breakthrough.

So I’ve really just been hanging on by a thread.

But hanging on, none the less!

I keep wondering if everything that’s happening is just bad karma – and that I should just accept my punishment.

I had come to the conclusion that maybe the rest of my days are just to be a good mom.

That’s it. Cook, clean, run the girls to their activities, etc.

But it hit me recently: All that’s teaching the girls is to cook, clean, run errands for their kids – because kids learn, mostly by example.

Yes, that’s wonderful ….but it’s not enough.

I want them to have a dream and see it through.

I want them to go to beautiful places.

I want them to find their talents and hone them.

I want them to have fun with their friends. …and be a good friend.

I want them to recognize what’s wrong with our world and reach out to people in need.

The only way that’s going to happen is if they see me do it. NOW.

It’s action time.

I now use this 3 word phrase as my mantra – to get me out of my head and onto my feet – taking action.

Yes, I still sometimes get caught up in my familiar negative thinking.

I may not have the support I wish I had.

(I miss venting to my mom so much!)

I may have no money.

(I’m at rock bottom, man!)

But, now when I do, I remind myself all of that is no excuse. After all,  I’ve got my kids – and that’s the most wonderful thing in the world!

And so I repeat my empowering 3 word mantra – and take whatever steps I can – small steps if I must – but steps nonetheless.

I remind myself…

It’s action time!

Written and shared with love by Cindy Cummings Johnson

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