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Living in the past is like driving forward while staring in the rear view mirror.     Believing is seeing.     Be an over-fright success story.     One's actions convince louder than one's words.     Make progress. Make new mistakes.     All work and no play makes Jill want to reach for the Prozac.     The purpose of your life is to find the purpose of your life. It doesn't matter how fast you get there if you're heading in the wrong direction.     If at first you don't succeed, you're doing something stupid.     You're nobody until somebody hates you.     Behind every successful woman is someone who pissed her off.     To get where you need to go you must first see who you really are.     Be a warrior, not a worrier.     Be a winner, not a whiner.     If the coyote had stopped to catch his breath, he might have caught the roadrunner.     A pack of puppies led by a pitbull will always be feared more than a pack of pitbulls led by a puppy.     Brainpower is as important as horsepower. Read, read, read!     You should always pick a job for its passion value not cash-in value.     Don't let a blame preoccupation ruin your occupation.     It's always better to go for longterm greed over short term greed.     A shortcut is often the longest distance between two points.     Time is money...and time wasters are money wasters.     Don't wait to make heaps and heaps of cash to have heaps and heaps of fun.     Every member of the Fortune 500 Club could also be a member of the Misfortune 500 Club.     Money doesn't bring you true happiness...but happiness can bring you true money. If you love what you do, the money will come.     Whatever business you're in you're in the people business.     Fail Faster. Succeed faster.     Behind every successful woman is someone who pissed her off.     Follow the fuscia brick road.   Failure is in many ways like "fullure" - it is always full of lessons to be learned.     Believe in a laughter life.     Don't let your convictions become your restrictions.     Invest in "Fresh Air Fun." Take a walk outside once a day.     If you want your body to be smoking, you've got to stop smoking.     Sometimes, all you gotta do is ask. Duh.     Taking no action is an action. Duh.     Happiness is not about what happens to you -- but about how you choose to respond to what happens.     Comedy = tragedy + 3 months and/or 3 margaritas!     Practice that tongue twister "NO" today.     Take the fat out of your fate. Slim down your schedule to what matters.     It's not just what you know...but what you do with what you know.     The grass is greener on the other side - until you get there and see it's astroturf.     When you grow - you often outgrow.     The only constant is change.     You are a human being, not a human was or a human will be.     Self honesty is the only path to happiness.     Sometimes we're "mad at" someone whom we should merely be "sad at."     Be so proactive you're preactive.     Fast doesn't always last.     Love is a boomerang. What have you and give away is what you get back.     Fear of commitment: it could happen to you...or someone you can't love.     Saying difficult things now is better than fixing even more difficult problems later.     It is better to have loved and lost - than to live with a psycho for the rest of your life.     It is better to have loved and lost - and had some really amazing hot sex - than never to have lived and loved at all.     A man is not a project. A man is a man. And a project is a project.     It's better to have a short bad relationship than a long bad relationship.     It's worth it to hold out for a soul mate and not settle for a cellmate.     Assess breeds success.     Turn all bad experiences into good inperiences - take them in fully, and change in a positive way.    
 

Wednesday, April 11, 2007

Can workaholism be as bad for productivity as alcoholism?


According to Charles Czeisler, a specialist in sleep deprivation at Harvard Medical School, workaholism might just be.

Dr. Czeisler recently reported that lack of sleep can be as bad for productivity as drinking too much alcohol.

According to Dr. Czeisler : "We now know that 24 hours without sleep, or a week of sleeping four or five hours a night, induces an impairment equivalent to having alcohol level in the blood. We would never say, 'This person is a great worker! He's drunk all the time!' …yet we continue to celebrate people who sacrifice sleep for work."

And Corporate America does promote workaholism amongst its ranks - pushing exec's to work marathon-100-hour-workweeks, encouraging employees to take red-eyes and land with fast-feet running to the office, rather than catch needed shut-eye and re-energize.

Dr. Czeisler warns that burning candles at both ends actually does not justify the productivity ends. Indeed sleep deprivation creates the antithesis to high performance.

“With too little sleep,” Dr Czeisler says, “people do things that no CEO in his or her right mind would allow.”

For this reason, Dr. Czeisler suggests companies now start to incorporate new sleep policies which oppose employees working beyond a 16-consecutive-hour period, and prohibit working or driving immediately after late-night or overnight flights.

Dr. Czeisler comments how it’s interesting that companies have rules to protect employees against smoking and sexual harassment -- yet companies promote self-destructve workaholism behavior.

I suggest you keep Dr. Czeisler ‘s report in mind the next time you have a choice between working too long versus getting needed rest.

In fact, I suggest you sleep on all this.

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BE HAPPY DAMMIT TIP



In today's busy world, dads are researched to merely spend an average of 7 minutes a day of quality time with kids!

Meanwhile, the average person spends 2.5 - 4 hours a day watching tv, equivalent to a part time job!

Yikes!

Today on BE HAPPY DAMMIT (my daily 8am EST radio show on SIRIUS/LIME 114) I talked about the difficulties and funny aspects of parenting with Jonathan Fields (serial lifestyle entrepreneur)and Danny Evans (hot blogger of DAD GONE MAD)and Bill Brazell -- who brings me hot bloggers every week.

Another scary fact: 54 percent of young kids would now rather watch tv than spend time with their father!

BE HAPPY DAMMIT ASSIGNMENT:Step away from that TV -- and spend time with kids the old fashioned way -- play with them, talk with them, read to them!

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Tuesday, April 10, 2007

HAPPY DAMMIT SEMINAR - APRIL 18TH - NYC LEARNING ANNEX


Happiness tip#27: Sing your heart-ache out.

FACT: The Institute of Music, Health and Education has found that just five minutes of singing or humming can put you in a sunnier mood.

Your Happiness Assignment: When in the shower or bath, sing until your heart's content. Avoid songs once shared with an ex or lyrics on the maudlin side.

Some Guaranteed Musical Boosters I recommend: We will rock you – Queen; We are the champions – Queen; Emotional rescue – Rolling Stones; Simply the best – Tina Turner; Like a rolling stone – Bob Dylan; Respect – Aretha Franklin; Brass in pocket – Pretenders; Mustang sally – Wilson Pickett or the Commitments; These boots are made for walking - Nancy Sinatra; My Way - Frank Sinatra; Wind beneath my wings – Bette Midler; I will survive – Gloria Gaynor; Mocking bird – Carly Simon and James Taylor; Don’t worry Be happy – Bobby McFerrin; I can see clearly now - Bob Marley; Calling all angels – K.D. Lang; In my life – The Beatles; Who let the dogs out – Baha men; Banana boat song – Harry Belafonte; Girls just want to have fun – Cyndi Lauper!

If you live in NYC...come join me live -- and I will share all the latest empowering mood boosting research and tips to help you through challenging times -- at my Be Happy, Dammit seminar at THE LEARNING ANNEX on APRIL 18TH (Course 366CNY, Section A) from 7:00 PM to 8:30 PM. I promise I will help to perk up even the most cynical spirit - by sharing new research and techniques from psychology, biology, eastern and western philosophies, quantum physics, the Zen of Bazooka Joe.

Register by calling the New York Learning Annex office at (212) 371-0280...or click this linkerooni.

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Sunday, April 08, 2007

Lincoln was right. “Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.”



According to the Happiness Project at Oxford University, half of your personality is inherited!

Meaning..., your disposition toward optimism and happiness is based 50% on your genetic inheritance.

But that's actually good news -- because this means you have control of that other hefty 50%. So happiness is really an inner decision. It's about making up your mind to control your mind -- harness your conscious brain power to think about things differently and seek positive solutions and activities which bring you the most joy.

As Lincoln said: “Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.”

HAPPINESS ASSIGNMENT: Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, a best selling author on happiness and “flow,” suggests you systematically record your activities and feelings every few hours for two weeks. Rate them on a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being most positive). Then afterwards, note your high points versus low points. Afterwards, consciously adjust how you spend your time according to your findings -- and you will soon be happier.

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