10 Secrets To A Happier Love Life

First, read this list of relationship tips below. When you get to the bottom, I will share with you WHERE they come from -- a surprising source!

1. We all create our relationships to work out issues that need to be addressed.

2. We project most of our undesirable AND fabulous qualities on to the partner.

3. Own what are your relationship issues and what are the other person's issues. Acknowledge your part in the play. We always attract our "equal" on the continuum. A victim will always find a victimizer, a masochist a sadist, a giver a taker. No judgements, but don't think it's their issue that they always leave... You change YOUR behavior and you will attract a different kind of partner.

4. Ignorance and emotional immaturity cause pain. Pick your emotional equal, which has very little to do with age. There are still 50 year olds playing in the sandbox.

5. Pain and frustration are the result of not wanting to see reality. Do your partner's words and actions match up? The first meeting actually shows you the entire trajectory of a relationship. A person usually tells you who he/she is in the first five minutes of meeting. (aka: I'm not a relationship oriented person, I'm not ready to open up to someone, I usually leave/get left, I'm not a good person)

6. Feigned indifference is NOT an aphrodisiac. If you desire someone, show it as you will get back ten times what you put out.

7. Casual sex is an oxymoron. Sex is the most powerful energy on the planet with clear emotional and chemical impact, so choose your partners with discrimination. You don't want psychic garbage clogging up your system.

8. Likewise, sex without love is SOUL-DEADENING. We are meant to connect deeply in the sex act and when the heart is closed, you short-circuit and distort your energy.

9. Women are looking for their inner male animus in the partner, while men are trying to access their inner female, their anima through their mate. With same sex couples, the same applies. Whoever is playing the male is seeking the female in the other and vice versa.

10. Despite the oftentimes push-pull of even the most dysfunctional relationship, both people choose the relationship.

There about 5 more incredibly insightful and helpful tips from this fascinating expert...who is Patrice Kamins... an astrological consultant, creator of a wonderful site called interventionista.com...and my guest tomorrow on my drivetime radio show BE HAPPY DAMMIT, from 8am to 9am EST on Sirius, at Lime 114.

As a radio host it's interesting to have people on one day from the science community ...and an astrologer on the next day.

What's also intriguing for me is to explore topics I'm not necessarily "sold on" from the get-go. I'll confess now...and I'll confess on air...I'm not a big follower in astrology.

AND YET...I lovelovelove Patrice's relationship tips above ....which she continues on her interventionista.com site.

I look forward to discussing how and why astrology can help folks lead a happier life. And in particular I also look forward to exploring how her very wise relationship tips above are inspired and informed by her work with astrology!